Name: Helen M. Fisher
Dear Pat, thanks so much for taking the time to contribute to
my "share your thoughts page." In 1996 I did extensive
book and speaking events in the Bay Area. I spoke at Unity of
Walnut Creek at that time. I don't have any plans at present
to do any events in the San Francisco area. I lived in East Bay
when the book first came out so I did many book events in Northern
California. We live in the Pacific Northwest now and I am busy
working on another book. No, not a metaphysical one this time,
this one will be of an environmental nature, but I do plan on
doing a sequel to "From Erin with Love" at some point
down the road because we continue to have contact with Erin even
though more than 10 years have passed since she made her transition.
There is the possibility that I could arrange an event at your
church on one of our trips to the Bay Area. We always come down
in the fall to present the scholarship award that is given in
Erin's name at the college she attended, so a speaking event
at the Unity Church you attend isn't beyond the realm of possibility.
I'm glad to hear you are researching after-death communications,
etc. This knowledge can bring a great peace into a person's life.
What I have learned has also led me into attempting :-) to understand
quantum physics, primarily because I have an overwhelming need
to understand how this type of communication takes place. I feel
very strongly that this type of physics is where the answer will
be found. I wish you luck in your search for answers. Peace and
love, Helen.
Name: Michael
Location: New Jersey
Email: mlbmf@aol.com
Helen, Thanks for this site and for dedicating so much of your
time helping others and sharing your wonderful experiences. I
lost my mother a little less than one month ago. It was a devastating
loss for my sister, brother, father and I. I was so very close
with my mom. She was my best friend and I feel that I lost the
one person in this world that truly cared for me with unconditional
love. It is almost impossible for us to get through this because
we were such a close family and I feel like each day is like
walking through fire. To be honest, if you spoke to me a month
ago I would have thought you were somehow imagining your experiences.
I am now very much a believer, not because I have had a sign
from my mom but because I find comfort in believing. I have spent
time on George's site and have made an appointment to see him
with my sister. My father is very against this and does not believe
that any of it is possible. I know it must be unimaginable pain
to loose a child, but imagine how Erin would feel if she had
lost you ? I am 33 and my mother was only 60. My baby will be
born next month and my mother was so excited about this child.
She wanted to live in the worst way and loved being with us and
her grandchildren. I cannot imagine that she is happy where she
is because she must miss the physical part of being with us.
We have not had any signs from my mother. I had one dream right
after she died and she seemed to be angry with me at first and
then told me something. I believe she may be angry at us for
letting her die or not doing enough to save her. She was in the
hospital for 15 days and I did not work or leave her side for
the entire time. I feel like we got her the best doctors and
did all we could. I believe if my mother was conciously existing
now and could communicate with us, she would. I ask each night
for her to talk to me to no avail. I am suffering so much without
her and would do anything for a sign. I truly hope that George
can speak with her. Did Erin tell you things to validate that
it was really her ? Thanks for your time.
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Dear Michael, I am very sorry about the Earth loss of your mother
at such a young age. Yes, Erin would have been grief stricken
if I had died, just as you are over the loss of your mom. I remember
her coming to me about a month before she made her transition
and saying, "Mom, I would just go crazy if anything happened
to any of you." There is no easy way around the pain that
comes from loss. I am glad to hear that you are going to meet
with George Anderson. I think your mind will be eased somewhat
by doing so. There were members of my family also who didn't
approve of our meeting with George. In fact my husband went with
me for one reason only, and that was to protect me from this
man. I have to chuckle as I write this because my husband walked
out of George's house that night a total believer. Validation
for us that evening was almost immediate when George said he
saw a young woman with short blond hair standing in front of
us, and she was wearing a lavender dress. Erin was known for
her love of any shade of purple. In answer to your question do
I ask for validation from Erin, yes, I do, and it is often given.
One example is when I was meditating one morning around 7:30
when I told Erin that if she was there to tell a friend of mine
who happens to be an excellent intuitive to call me. Around 9:30
the phone rang and Ken said, "What's going on? Erin told
me to call you." I asked him what time it was that Erin
had appeared to him. He said that she had awakened him at 7:30.
I very much doubt that your mom is angry at you, and the dream
may have been more of a clearing of your own thoughts and perhaps
doubt that you hadn't done enough. This feeling is what I call
"what if? syndrome." I would guess it happens to nearly
everyone who has lost a loved one, regardless of the circumstances.
As for not receiving signs from your mother it may be too soon
and your grief too great. Usually they happen when least expected
and often in very subtle ways. A loved one can be there and the
only indication may be a sensing of a presence. Much the same
as you might feel someone coming up behind you even though they
haven't made a sound. I would be very interested in hearing about
your meeting with George if you would care to share. Peace and
love, Helen.
Name: LISA
Location: NEW JERSEY
Email: pdbking@aol.com
Helen, Thanks for writing back to my brother Michael. We are
having a hard time finding the way foward with our families counting
on us. I now everyone loses their mother evenually but this to
soon and my mother seems to be living in the middle of everything.
Much like Erin she had no idea this would happen to her now.Do
you have any other children? I never believed in souls or anyone
being able to communicate to them. I will remain skeptical until
I see a possitive sign or Georges session can convince me. I
am so sorry for your loss,but could please tell me how to get
the strength to go on for my family. Why do you think it is to
soon for my mother to communicate? I have three boys that my
Mother adored very much,they were her whole life.Evertime I think
that she can't enjoy them anymore I go crazy and breakdown. Everytime
I had a problem and needed to talk to someone about the kids
or myself I called my mom. Now I am lost. My kids see me upset
all the time and are having a hard time in school. I am having
a hard time comforting them I can't help myself. My husband is
very caring and will listen to me but he is not my mother it's
not the same. Maybe you can tell me how to go on without my mother.I
hope to god she really is with me and when I talk to her she
hears me. Thank you for listening to me and please write back.
Lisa
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Thanks for writing, Lisa. All the emotions you are going through
at the present time are totally normal, that I want to stress.
Like you, I didn't believe in the possibility of communication
after death but our experiences have obviously changed that.
Erin was the younger of our two children. Her sister has had
a difficult time, of course, because she loved Erin very much.
They were like twin souls, they were so close. I can identify
with the emotions you are feeling, right down to the feeling
of going crazy at the thought of never seeing your mother again.
But I learned as time went by that Erin was still a part of my
life. I mentioned that it might be too soon for your mom to be
able to contact you because of the fact it was quite a long time
before my own mother made contact with me, and it was in my sensing
that she was near. I have written about previously about this
in response to another posting. When my husband and I met with
George it was as if he gave us our lives back on a silver platter.
It didn't take away our grief, but it took away the finality
of our loss. It also validated the signs that we had experienced.
Erin has told us that she has not gone anywhere, and it is obvious
she is still of the same personality she was while in Earth form.
George reacted to her in exactly the same way people did when
she was here with us. One of her friends chuckled when she heard
the tape we had of our meeting with George when George said he
wouldn't argue with her, she seemed to know what she was talking
about because that totally fit Erin and how adamant she could
be when she knew she was correct. There is absolutely no way
George Anderson could have known what he told us that evening,
bless him. I have since been led to other persons who have the
same ability as George. I did not seek out any of them. I have
sent many others to George and to my intuitive friends. None
that I know of have ever been disappointed in their reads. Time
is the greatest healer after a loss. Also reaching out to others
in need is a great healing tool. There is a misconception about
grief in that others expect you to be okay after a few weeks
or a month or two. You will never stop missing your mom, but
time will help ease your pain. My pain eased somewhat when I
made the decision to live my life in a way that would make Erin
proud of me, but even then it has been a long and difficult journey
on the road of grief. Talk to your mom and she will hear you.
Of that fact I am quite certain. I have talked with Erin when
I am out walking and later what I have said has been verified
without my asking from one of my intuitive friends. Our loved
ones do not die, they only change form. Feel free to e-mail me
if I can be of further help. Peace and love, Helen.
Name: Mary
Location: Ohio
Email: mpummell@loganrec.com
Dear Helen, I have read your site, and I, too, have had ADC's
from my daughter. She died by suicide after years of being in
a major depression as a result of being raped. She has visited
me in dreams several times. She was a registered nurse at the
time of her death, and she has told me that she works with those
who come to the other side by suicide. She visited me in a dream
to let me know that one of my cousins was going to die, and he
did die a few short months later (he was in his 30"s). I
have also smelled her perfume around me a couple of times. One
morning on the way to work I said, "Cherie, if you are with
me, show me a sign." At that very moment the Four Season's
song "Sherry" came on the radio, and the next song
was one of the oldies that went as such "Where, oh where,
can my baby be. She's gone to heaven , so I've got to be good,
so I can see my baby when I leave this world." Do you think
this was a coincidence? Mary
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Dear Mary, from one bereaved mother to another, please accept
my deepest sympathies on the Earth loss of your daughter. I am
so very sorry. My feeling on what you have written is that, yes,
you are having contact with your daughter. When dreams come true
that, to my way of thinking, is absolute proof that the dream
was real. Also the same with requesting a sign, and you have
something happen that is of great significance such as when the
song "Sherry" came on the radio. The odds of this happening
by random coincidence are very unlikely. Let me give you an example
of a sign I requested and received. Several years ago while we
were vacationing in Hawaii, we were sitting on the deck looking
out at a cove in which there were whales that we could see from
time to time. I silently asked Erin to have a whale breach if
she was with us. Within a few short minutes a whale came shooting
up out of the water, not once but five times. It isn't that common
to see whales breach; come out of the water, yes, but not to
come straight out as they do when breaching. On that same trip
I found a pen in the center of a suitcase that had just been
unpacked. I literally gasped when I saw it because it was an
engraved pen that Erin had received as a graduation gift. How
it got in that suitcase, I have no idea, and why it would be
in the very center instead of rolled to the side is also a puzzle.
So believe in the signs you are receiving. How they can happen,
I simply don't know. What I do know is that in the 10 1/2 years
since Erin made her transition we have had continual happenings
such as the ones I have cited. And in a great many instances
they have been confirmed by my intuitive friends without my telling
them anything about what I have experienced. Back to the Hawaii
vacation, our bedspread was covered with swallowtail butterflies,
another very meaningful coincidence. Thank you for taking the
time to post on my page. Peace and love, Helen.
Name: Jennie McPherson
Location: Birmingham, Ala
Email: OneJmacOne@aol.com
Without knowing anything about Helen Fisher or the lost of her
Daughter, Erin, I just stumbled across this webbsite. I lost
my 15 year old daughter , also named Erin, last July. I have
had a heartreaking journey these past 8 months. But, I have found
such a new faith in God. I held my Erin just after the accident,
and she had been pronounced dead. In my absolute horror - I felt
that what I was holding was not her. It was almost like a spiritual
experience - but an absolute knowledge that my Erin was in Heaven.
I have lost both my parents, and during times of my life have
felt thier presence with me. I am still hoping that I will again
feel that comforting presence, except with knowing that this
time it is my Erin. A few weeks ago, I was going thru another
bout of depression. I prayed for some sign of Erin to help me
battle this overwhelming feeling of despair. I was looking out
on a field from my work, and noticing the beautiful sky. I just
said in my thoughts - OH Erin - I just wish that you would give
me a sign. I then looked up and saw a very small rainbow shining
just on one part of the cloud. I called over a co-worker and
asked if she could see it too. Just as she said - "I see
it" - it dissapeared. Weather - or a sign from Erin - I
know what joy it gave me. I know that my daughter is waiting
for me to heal before she gives me another sign - but I totally
feel that I will feel her with me soon.
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Hello, Jennie. My heart goes out to you on the loss of your daughter
Erin. Your use of a "heart-breaking journey" is an
apt description of what you are undergoing--a journey filled
with pain and despair. I can promise that your pain will not
always remain as it is now. You will never stop loving or missing
your Erin, but you will arrive at a point where you can live
around the pain and have a full and happy life. I am not saying
that there won't always be times when you are transported back
and relive every moment of that tragic day but they won't happen
nearly as often as time goes by. You will be able to talk about
her and smile at the memories, though often the tears will be
there also. How could they not? Looking back to that last day
in the hospital with my Erin, when I had to turn and leave her
forever, my feeling was similar to yours as you held your Erin.
My Erin was not there; her body was, but she was not. I love
your story about the rainbow; I have read and been told of similar
happenings with them. I think our answers are to be found in
signs connected with Nature. I remember one day seeing a rainbow
overhead but there wasn't a cloud in sight, let alone a raindrop.
Again, my heart goes out to you. Peace and love, Helen.
Name: Stephanie Marie
Location: Muskogee, Ok.
Email: firestone@azalea.net
I was 11 years old when I looked out my bedroom window and seen
a flash that looked like lightening inside my friend David's
house. I didn't know what it was until the parameditics came
out with David on the stretcher cover in a white sheet. The police
is saying it was a suicide but I am not so sure of that. It is
possible but also there is too many suspicious things that happened
in this case. I guess I am writing to you because I thought I
have been over this problem for about two years now, but as I
sit here writing to you I have relized I have only ignored my
feelings and problems with David's death. My questions to you
is,"How do I get to feeling better and being able to live
my life again without depression? It has been 10 years without
him, and I really miss him. Approximiatly 2 weeks after his death
I had a dream that my family and I went to his funeral but I
was talking through it like I it was like a boring movie but
my family was not responding to me, I got up to go to the restroom
while everyone was walking down to pay their last respects and
I told my mom to save my spot, I'll be back! I came back and
I was next to view the body when I looked in the casket there
I layed instead of David. He might have been just a friend but
to me he was like an older brother who always watched out for
his baby sister... Please help me... Thank you for letting me
share a few of my feelings I have been holding for a long time!!!
Sincerely, Stephanie Marie
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Hi Stephanie. How very tragic for you to have lost your special
friend, David, when you were so very young. It must have been
very confusing at 11 years of age to have to deal with such a
terrible tragedy. I don't think we ever get over the loss of
someone who is important to us, instead we somehow learn to live
a full and happy life in spite of the loss. That is how I feel
we can honor the memory of those who have made their transition
to the Other Side. I don't feel qualified to attempt to analyze
your dream because I do not have any training in this area. I
would like to suggest that you find someone whom you will feel
comfortable talking with, preferably a trained therapist if that
would be possible. It sounds as though you are at a point where
you definitely need to talk about David and his death with someone.
Share your feelings as you have done in your writing on this
page. Often depression is a result of unresolved pain. Know that
you will be in my thoughts. Peace and love, Helen.
Name: Ann
Location: New hampshire, USA
Email: mcfarm@landmarknet.net
On December 28th 1999, our beautiful, talented daughter, Catherine
comitted suicide in our home. She was just 18, Three months previously
she had been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and had two admissions
to a psychiatric hospital, The alst time she was in for three
weeks, and was released with a favorable prognosis contingent
on a strict adherance to a regime of powerful medicatio, including
anti psychotics. She was upset about having to take the medication
for the rest of her life, but promised to cooperate. She had
one visit to a psychiatrist whom she liked, and another to a
therapsist. She accompanied her Dad to new York to visit with
family. Upn her return it was almost Christmas, and we celebrated
the day with a family dinner, and she received a ski jacket,
which she had requested. She began training to become a ski instructor,
but comp[lained that the medication made her tired, and affected
her coordination. On the Monday after Christmas, December 27th
she skied all day and returned exhausted. She went to visit a
friend, and returned fairly late, very uncommunicative, but I
thought she was just tired. The next day she said she thought
she might have the flue, so we suggested she stay home. Her Dad
did not feel well. They were lying on the two couches watching
tv when I left to do some errands. This was a Tuesday. Catherine
definately seemed ill, but she had promised that she would go
to her psychiatrist for an appointment that day after having
fed her friend's horses at at 4pm, I returne about 3.45 and I
was surprized that all our cars were there. I could not find
Catherine and started to panic, The door to her room was locke,
i had to get my husband out of a deep sllet to break her door
down. he discovered that she had hanged herself. According to
a note, found later, it would have been 1,30 pm. He immediately
started cpr, I called 911. Of course it was too late. Catherine
was very popular and our communtiy was very saddened by Catherine's
death. Of course we were and are devastated. Shortly after the
funeral I began to feel a strange tingling feeling , like a mild
electric shock, whenever i focus on her. I have come to believe
that she is trying to communicate with me, and it is her way
of telling me she loves me. My husband has also experienced this.
he had a dream in which the tingling ocurred . He asked "What's
this?" Her voice replied"that's what happens when i'm
around". At Catherine's wake he "saw"her in a
kind of vignette over the casket running toward his parents,
whom she had never met . She was saying"At last I've met
you!" Interestingly when I had gone to the hospital i was
wearing a brown dress under my coat. my husband had never seen
it .( Catherine did not own such a dress and had never been a
brownie or girlscout:it looks something like a brownie uniform)
Two days ago I wore the dress without the coat. My husband gasped
and said that was what Catherine was wearing in the 'vision".
he said he had never seen me wearing it.he checked to make sure
it had short sleeves as did the one Catherine was wearing. it
seemed to be Catherine's way of telling us that she knew what
I had been wearing when we went to the hospital.
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Dear Ann. I would like to offer my condolences on the tragic
loss of your daughter Catherine. She sounds like she was/is a
very special person. It sounds as though she is very determined
to make her presence known to you. Your mentioning of the feeling
of tingling similar to an electric shock makes sense to me because
I fully believe that communication is somehow made possible through
the use of electromagnetic energy. Thank you for sharing the
actual experiences you and your husband have had. I, too, believe
that the happenings connected with the brown dress were to confirm
that she knew what you were wearing that fateful day, as I believe
she knows everything that happens in your life. My heart goes
out to you. Peace and love, Helen.
Name: Beverly
Location: USA
Email: btripp@capecod.net
I have just read your book.. From Erin With Love. and was very
touched.. just lost my mom... and can relate to the butterfly...
she loved the color red.. and at her memorial we all wore something
red... and had red flowers... since then a cardinal, has been
appearing to me in the yard... an expressional of my mothers
love??? I hope so,, and I feel her close to me... thank you for
your book and your understanding..
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Hi Beverly, thanks for sharing with all of us. Please accept
my sympathy on the loss of your mother. My feeling is that the
cardinal is being directed by your mom to let you know she is
around and has indeed been sent as an expression of love. When
you sense the presence of your mother, I feel quite certain that
she is near. Thank you for the kind comments about "From
Erin with Love." I'm happy it has been of help to you. I
am very sorry for your loss. Peace and love, Helen.
Name: Debbie
Location: Michigan
Email: jerry@voyager.net
For some reason, unknown to me, I just stumbled onto this website.
I really enjoy reading the comments from others and the personal
responses by Helen. There is so much unconditional love here.
I can feel it. 25 years ago, my oldest son died in a tragic accident.
He was only 2 1/2 years old. I almost left that destroy me. I
lived for many years with a hollow heart. Then, I met the my
soulmate. We were married for 16 years. He taught me so much
about life and unconditional love. He suddenly passed over to
eternal life in July, 1999. Since that time, I have only felt
the love and peace. His frequent ADCs help guide me in my own
journey and has helped me find my own peace. It doesn't take
away the sorrow but it does help ease the pain. It gives me the
inner strength I need to survive another day. He has also brought
my son to me (He always knew of my son but I was married to a
different person at the time of the accident), something that
never happened in the 24 years prior to my husband's death. If
I had one wish, to be granted, it would be for all those who
suffer from the death of a loved one, to be able to reach in
and open their own hearts to feel the love from our loved ones
in eternal life and find their own personal peace that love is
eternal. God bless all.
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Thank you, Debbie, for your contribution to this page. Your words
ring with your personal experience and truth. You are so correct
in that ADCs do not take away the sorrow even though they do
help ease the pain, but what they do take away is that terrible
finality we have been taught to associate with death. My heart
goes out to you on the loss of your son so many years ago and
the more recent loss of our soulmate. What a wonderful gift he
has been able to give you in connecting you with your son. The
wish you state above is my wish, also, and has been the driving
force for From Erin with Love and this website. Thank you for
sharing with those who frequent this page.
Name: Jennifer Gayton
Location: Sierra Vista, AZ
Email: jennifergayton@hotmail.com
Hi Helen, I am sorry to hear of the loss of your father. I think
it is great he has let you know that he is okay and lives on.
You emailed me about 3 or 4 months ago in response to my email
to you asking for referrals to reputable mediums. I contacted
Natalie and had a reading. I know you mentiond a gentleman who
does readings by referral only. Could you please send me his
name and how to get a hold of him. I deleted the msg and I would
like to contact him. I would appreciate any help you can give
me regarding this. God Bless. Jennifer Gayton
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Hi Jennifer. Thank you for your thoughtfulness about my father's
passing. I have e-mailed you the name of the gentlemen I refer
people to. He is very good. Good luck in your search for answers.
Peace and love, Helen.
Name: Hazel Koschel
Location: Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Email: mihakos@home.com
Dear Helen, I recently lost my most precious 17 yr old son in
a tragic accident on the Calif coast. He was hiking with a school
group from Calgary, an adult chaperone was swept away by a wave,
and my son Brodie and another boy were swept away trying to rescue
her. He was a wonderful boy, we were so bonded, and I was so
proud of him. I miss him horribly. I feel that he is around and
I have talked to him numerous times. However, I would like a
sign, which I hope he will be able to give me soon. I would really
like to contact a medium soon. I have sent an application form
to George Anderson, but he is very booked up. In the meantime,
can you suggest someone else? I can go to another city, western
US or Canada is most convenient, but of course Calgary would
be the best of all. Thanks. Hazel
Name: Helen M. Fisher
My dear Hazel. I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My heart
breaks for you. I have the names of two excellent mediums whom
I refer to others. They are also very kind and caring people.
One is in Pennsylvania; the other in Oregon, and both do reads
via phone or in their own homes. I will be e-mailing info on
how to contact them. Peace and love, Helen.
Name: Barbara Tuber-Sooy
Location: Walnut Creek, CA
Email: bets@hotmail.com
A week after my 17 year old son, Matthew Brandon Sooy, was buried,
I clearly heard his voice in my head saying, "I love you
Mom". Matt died April 11, 1997. Last September, after leaving
religious services, I found a marble in my car. I had vacuumed
the interior earlier that day and I definitely had no marbles
in my purse. I believe it was a sign from Matt. The following
day I was in bed reading -- definitely awake -- when I felt an
arm reach behind me and give me a hug. In addition, I once had
a dream where I saw him as if in another dimension. He wasn't
solid. He told me he waZS right there, in the Runes. Although
we had taken him to Stonehenge in England and I saw him in Stonehenge
in my dream, I knew that he didn't say "ruins", but
"Runes". The next day I saw an add for book on Runes.
Then "Merlin" the miniseries was on and they showed
a magician in Stonehenge, throwing the Runes. When I mentioned
my dream to a friend of Matt's, he told me that a month before
Matt died they started reading the Runes. I immediately went
out and purchased Runes and everytime I ask them a question,
something meaningful comes up. I've also had "scent visitations".
The first birthday after he died was the first time -- as I was
going to sleep his scent came to me. I've had it happen several
times.
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Barbara, you have had some tremendous experiences. I can't adequately
express the joy I am feeling for you. I wish you could see the
smile on my face. The sensation of a hug as you were reading
in bed was similar to what happened to me in a similar setting,
only mine was feeling Erin's cheek on my lips, so I could give
her the kiss I was longing to give. It was as though she was
right there with me. The softness of her cheek was such a familiar
feel. It is wonderful when you can have a dream verified as you
did when you spoke to Matt's friend and discovered the significance
of the Runes. Scent is another form of communication, both the
scent of the loved one who has crossed over,a special perfume,
or, as I have experienced, the scent of flowers on a special
days such as Mother's Day. The latter was later verified by a
medium when she said that Erin wanted to know if I liked the
flowers she sent on Mother's Day. My heart goes out to you on
the Earth-loss of your son Matt. I thank you for sharing with
all who read this board. I feel it is important for those of
us who have made contact with our loved ones to tell our stories.
Peace and love, Helen.
Name: linda schiro
Location: statenisland ny
Email: lindajoeysmom@aol.com
my son joey was murdered. Joey was 22 years old. He was shot
in the back of the hethe head twice. when joey was killed so
was i. i ended up in a pschciatric ward ward threetimes. i could
not bear the thought of my son being scared and knowing what
was going to happen to him. it drove me totally insane. my baby
scared oh god why. I went to a medium named GlenDove. I had to
know if my son felt pain or knew he was going to be shot. Glen
dove knew exactly what happened tto my son He told me there was
2 boys with him the day he was killed and it one of the two that
killed joey. he said joey went very quickly and did not know
wht was going to happen My father he said brought joey over.
he knew that joey was shot in the head. As i left i cried so
much Because i love and miss him and to know that joey was o.k
and didnt know he was going to get shot. i livenow knowing my
son i ok and that one day we will be together.that is how i live
my one day at a time. waiting for joey to open his arms and say
Ma come home. thank you for letting me share my son with you.
lindajoeysmom
Name: Helen M. Fisher
My dear, Linda. It is difficult to find words to adequately express
my sorrow on the tragic loss of your son Joey. The circumstances
surrounding his Earth death would be difficult for anyone to
accept, and I can definitely understand your crossing over that
fine line into insanity at times. The question comes to mind,
how could you not? Thank you for sharing how it helped when you
visited a medium and made contact with Joey. The purpose of this
page is to let others who are in the deep pain associated with
loss know that death is not the end, and that it is possible
to make contact with those who have changed form and gone on
to another dimension. As you well know, Linda, it does't take
away the pain, but it does lessen it somewhat when there is proof
that our loved ones continue to exist. That knowledge takes away
the terrible finality that is the unthinkable. I am happy that
you are doing better now that you know Joey is okay. You will
always shed tears for him, as I do for Erin, and you will always
have the need to physically hold him, but to know without a doubt
that he is alright, and that he went quickly without knowing
what was to come, will allow you to go on with your life and
eventually come to the place of once again being able to feel
joy. My heart goes out to you. Peace and love, Helen.
Name: Kay LaRocca
Location: Pennsylvania USA
Email: therock@usaor.net
I have a beautiful and true story (my own personal account) of
after death communications from my parents. I have a 2,000 page
manuscript. I am trying to find an outlet for my story, but to
date, have not found a place for it. Can you review my story
and make suggestions on possible places to publish it? I appreciate
your help and assistance. Do you have an e-mail address I can
send it to? Thank you for responding. Kay LaRocca
Name: Helen M. Fisher
I self-published From Erin with Love, so I can't be of any help
in your finding a publisher other than to suggest you buy a book
such as Writer's Market, which lists publisher's addresses and
phone numbers. I will be e-mailing you. Good luck with your endeavor.
Peace and love, Helen.
Name: Linda Nailor
Location: Rockford, Illinois
Email: lulabel2u@aol.com
Dear Helen: For the past year I have been experiencing a spirit,
I think it is a spirit. Both of my parents have passed on several
years ago. At night when I lay down and relax and think of my
parents and talk to them, there is a feeling like someone or
something is lightly walking around at the end of the bed around
my legs and feet. I can feel the pressure on my legs like someong
is pressing on the covers. Sometimes it is more prominant and
moves faster than other times. Once in a while, I get the feeling
like an energy before they come to me, It is hard to explain
this feeling but it is like a pulsing type energy feeling if
that makes any sense at all. I have been asking that they let
me know who it is that is visiting me, but so far I have no clue.
I would sure like to know who is visiting me in hopes to communicate
better with them. Occasionally I will hear noises in the house,
but other than that nothing out of the ordinary has occurred
except for these almost nightly visits. Do you have any suggestions
as to how I may be able to communicate better with my spirit,
or do I just wait and see what happens. When my brother lived
in our parents home, they would hear things moving around on
the dressers and in the cupboards, lights would go off and on,
the washing machine would start up and his wife did actually
see a spirit one night, but nothing like that has happened to
me. I welcome any suggestions you may have to help me communicate
with my spirit. thank you, Linda.
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Location: Pacific NW, USA
Email: HFisher41@aol.com
Hi Linda, I have been away so didn't get your answer directly
under your posting. I am always sorry when this happens. Is it
only the nights when you talk to your parents that you have these
experiences? If so, I would assume it is either your mother or
father, or both, who are with you. Especially since there have
been similar happenings in your paren'ts home. As I have never
experienced this type of happening, I can't really give you any
hints on how to further communication other than to suggest that
you ask them something such as, "Mom & Dad, if you're
here, please move something on the dresser," etc. The other
method of verifying if the energy you feel is your parents is
to consult with a medium. Don't hesitate to contact me via e-mail
if you want further information on going this route. Peace and
love, Helen.
Name: Georgianne Lamb
Location: Lockport, IL
Email: glamb@anl.gov
We lost our 29 yr. old son, Nick, suddenly on Oct. 25, 1998.
Nick never met a stranger and everyone from babies to grandparents
were drawn to him. The Director of the Funeral Parlor told us
it was the biggest viewing he has ever had. The night before
the wake numerous relatives and friends were sitting in my yard.
About 9:00 p.m. a stream of dove feathers fell from the sky and
trailed across the yard and scattered amongst those holding the
vigil. Nobody could figure out where the feathers came from as
birds do not fly at night. It was a beautiful night for so late
in October (shirt sleeve weather)and there was no wind; the feathers
just seemed to float. I collected the feathers and still have
them. The day after Nick's funeral some of Nick's friends were
at the house and telling me and my daughter about some "strange"
things that happened to them so Nick passed. My daughter made
the comment that she was upset because Nick didn't give her any
sign that he was o.k. About that time I asked her to call the
funeral parlor to make sure someone was there so we could pick
up the flowers. She picked up the phone to dial, but did not
do so. She stood there with the phone in her hand and I asked
her why she was not dialing and she said the phone was ringing.
I commented that the phone could not be ringing as it was off
the hook. Just then turned to me with the strangest look on her
face, hung up the phone and said, "I just got my sign from
Nick". She said she got a recorded message that said...The
area code and number you are trying to reach is out of range....she
never touched the keypad to dial. We have had numerous "experiences"
such as the TV and lights going off by themselves (which never
happened before), roses blooming in the dead of winter, radio
channels changing to Nick's favorite song all by themselves,
the telephone ringing with nobody on the line...no dial tone
or hang-up click....just an open line, shadows outside the corner
of our vision, and many, many more. I have been finding pennies
in the most unusual places, especially when I'm having a hard
time dealing....I'll usually tell him I'm having a bad time and
need a penny... sure enough within the next few days I'll find
my penny. I even started a journal of these experiences and have
58 entries to date. If anyone else has had an experience with
dove feathers, TV's and lights going off by themselves, roses
blooming in the winter...I sure would be interested in hearing
from them.
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Hello Georgianne, my heart goes out to you on the Earth loss
of your son. Nick sounds like a very special and high energy
person who is working overtime from where he now resides to make
his presence known to you. The feather incident is remarkable
and unlike any I have heard. My feeling is the feathers were
from a dove to indicate he was sending you peace of mind. Thank
you for sharing your numerous experiences. We had petunias blooming
beautifully in extremely cold weather, while nearly covered with
snow. My husband finds an extraordinary number of pennies, and
the lights in my office have been playing tricks for the past
year and a half. None of the 4 recessed bulbs has had to be changed
since we moved into our home in early 1998. One day two went
out at the same time, and I said, "Erin, if you are here
make another one go out. A 3rd immediately went off. A few minutes
later they all came back on. How this happens, I simply don't
know. What I do know is that it happens far too often and to
far too many people to be because of random chance. Thank you
for sharing, and I hope others share their similar stories as
you request. Peace and love, Helen.
Name: jennifer simon
Location: Chicago
Email: simonje@ms.com
I wrote to you about 8 months ago, and you shared Erin's turning
upside down of the teaspoons in the drawer....I lost your website
and just found it again today. I am still receiving signs from
my father who died 2 1/2 years ago, my grandparents as well.
Lately, it's in the form of a penny showing up everywhere. Even
falling out of my bed. I know it's dad. I wish my whole family
could realize the peace of knowing we continue on...and that
those who have gone on do communicate and still show their love
for us. I want to thank you for a wonderful site and I still
hope to read the book which I can never find when I'm at a booksotre.
I have no credit cards so I cannot charge it! I have had dreams
of my father almost instantaneously after he died. The first
was him hanging up his coat in a room filled with silver people.
I was standing there. Suddenly his wife appeared in color and
sparkly at his side. He wanted me to tell her he was home "hanging
up his coat" and she was still with him. That was over two
years ago. The most recent dream was two weeks ago where my dad
appeared and handed me a pack of nicorette gum. It would be a
great joy for him to see my not smoke! The wonders never cease....
Now I have a great peace about being here because we will all
be together again....I had one dream where I entered a doorway
and there was my dad on a couch with about 16 people waving hello
to me! I wish these visitations would happen to my brother and
sister and Haley my dad's wife, but it's only to me. At leaet
I can try and pass along the message. Thank you for your great
comfort and understanding to all people on this site. And for
sharing the messages from Erin. Jennifer Simon
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Hi Jennifer, it's good to hear from you again. I'm happy to learn
that you are still receiving communication. Many, many people
have a similar experience in finding pennies. I found dimes in
strange places for a very long time; my husband finds pennies.
A medium mentioned that Erin was sending them to him, and the
best part was that she brought it up without either of us mentioning
it was happening. About finding the book if you don't have a
credit card number to use for online ordering, any bookstore
can order "From Erin with Love"for you, because it
is listed in the Books in Print data base. Or you may order directly
from me. Let me know via e-mail if you want details on how to
do this. Thanks for keeping in touch. Peace and love, Helen.
Name: daisyyong
Location: los angeles
Email: daisyyong@hotmail.com
Dear Helen-My sweetest friend Alan passed away one month ago.
I believe he has contacted me twice but I just want to be sure
he is living in the light. Can you tell me a channeler/medium
that you like in the Los Angeles area? It is okay if they are
far too if I can do it over the phone. Thank you for having this
web site for everyone.
Name: Helen M. Fisher
Dear Daisey, I don't know of anyone in the Los Angeles area,
but I will be e-mailing you names and phone numbers of two mediums,
both of whom do reads over the phone. There is not too long of
a wait for a read with either one of them. I am so sorry for
the loss of your dear friend Alan. Peace and love, Helen
